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20 Secrets Behind Relationships That Last Forever


When you see your parents or your grandparents or old couple pictures on social media, have you wondered what makes them stay in a relationship for 10 years or 60 years? What’s their secret? Of course when we are in relationships with someone, we dream of this love to last forever. Yes, it needs effort and commitment but it’s worthed it when you do it with the right person. As the leading dating agency in Asia, we spill the 20 secrets behind relationships that last forever. 

1. Same values and goals 

The first secret of 20 secrets behind relationships that last forever is, same values and goals. When couples share the same values, life goals, and morals, they tend to stay together longer than couples who don’t have the same things. Having shared values means that you both believe in some of the same core things in your lives. 

2. Willing to take commitment

Commitment is tremendously important because you both are equally willing to spend time and effort to be together for a long time and make the relationship work. 

3. Showing affection 

Hug and kiss when waking up, before going to bed, when you do chores is the best thing. Affection keeps the flame of intimacy burning strong in your relationship. 

4. Not forget to say I Love You

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We often forget to say these three simple words to our partner. Saying this often gives your partner validation, confidence and reassurance. 

5. Checking in each other regularly 

Simple questions like “What are you doing?” “Have you eaten?” surely brighten your partner’s day. 

6. Listen attentively

If your partner initiates a conversation, whenever possible, stop what you are doing and make eye contact with this person you once adored. As they share their thoughts and feelings with you, truly focus on what they have to say.

7. Be honest with each other

This is an essential part of communication. Healthy relationships involve two people who are completely honest about how they feel and what they’re thinking – with themselves and each other.

8. Saying sorry

Sometimes, we’re ashamed to say sorry. But, saying sorry if you make mistakes that make your partner hurt  is really important as it helps heal relationship breakdowns that inevitably occur.

9. Showing appreciation

Gratitude is one of the most important positive emotions for thriving relationships. Acknowledging the things your partner does is one of the easiest ways to keep the spark alive

10. Make time to each other 

Everybody is busy. But there is a lot more to life than work. Clear your calendar for a date with your partner 

11. Be good with each other’s family 

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Having a good relationship with each other’s family strengthens the bonds of your relationship even more. 

 12. Surprise gift 

Surprises that are given to or planned make us feel excited, elated, loved and appreciated. And, the surprises don't need to be huge.  A cup of your partner’s drink does the work.

13. Having a healthy space

Giving ourselves space that is separate from our relationship allows us to still maintain individuality. Having physical space or uninterrupted time to ourselves allows us to pay closer attention to our emotions. It reduces poor communication between you and your partner. 

14. Plan a secret date 

Plan a secret date, for example if your partner loves cooking, take a couple cooking classes. Or if you both love arts, take a painting class together. This will help you as a couple to reconnect.

15. Be the number 1 supporter 

Whatever your partner’s do (as long as it’s positive), you’re their number one support. You support them when they’re failed, you support them when they achieve success. You give all your ear to listen to their problem and give moral support. 

16. Practice forgiveness 

Sometimes we feel disappointed or angry toward our partner. And it’s normal in a relationship. But forgiveness can tear a relationship apart. So practice forgiveness to make your relationship better. 

17. Be each other's best friends

A strong friendship can keep people together when the honeymoon phase is over. The friendship within the relationship builds a strong bond between you and your partner.

18. Being vulnerable

When you show your vulnerability, it means you trust your partner. 

19. Being happy

Your relationship brings you a lot more happiness and joy than it does sadness or pain. Your relationship is a net positive. Your relationship doesn’t drain you emotionally, it energizes you.

20. Ask professional help

Don’t be embarrassed asking professional help if you both can’t solve your relationship problems. It means you both really committed to make relationship better and really want to be together for the rest of your life

Those are the 20 secrets behind relationships that last forever! If you’re looking for the right partner for your life, click the banner below and let us do all the work!

 


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