South East Asia’s

Trusted Dating Service

Over 12 years of proven track record.

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About Us

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Our Process

We do the pre-screening, matching, date coordination and confirmation. All you have to do is show up and enjoy your date!

with our friendly dating consultants

based on your profile & preferences

just turn up and enjoy your date!

we’ll find your next suitable match

Why We Are Better

Many working professionals choose Lunch Actually as we provide a secure, discreet and personal service that is highly-relevant to their lifestyles.

Why do our members trust us?


First and largest lunch dating agency in South East Asia with offices in Singapore, Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur, Penang, Jakarta and Bangkok.


Pioneer dating agency accredited by Matchmaking Institute (New York), SDNTrust (Singapore Government) and Case Trust (Singapore).


Largest lunch dating membership base in South East Asia with thousands of eligible and discerning professionals and executives.


Our professional dating consultants meet up with every potential client in a private setting for a pre-screening consultation.


Our proprietary SoulSeek matching system ensures that at least 85% of matches rated as good to excellent by our members.


CEO Violet Lim is a published author, a trusted authority on dating and relationships, and is regularly featured in the media.

Success Stories

Over 12 years of proven track record across South East Asia.

  • “Lunch Actually Works!” Jeffrey and I would like to say a big thank you to Lunch Actually! 2 April 2011 was the date that changed our lives forever. We had our first date at Wheelock Place 🙂 Magical journey began for us henceforth. We simply felt so happy and blessed to be together. And so, we had our beautiful wedding ceremony in my preschool, The Kiddiwinkie Place on 20 Oct 2012.

    Jeffrey and Yuhan
    Jeffrey and Yuhan (married)
  • “Well Trained Dating Consultants” I met my date via Lunch Actually’s dating service back in December 2008 and we got happily married in July 2011. We highly recommend Lunch Actually to all singles and busy professionals. The dating consultants are well trained in handing 1-on-1 dates and group events. Lunch Actually’s dating service helps anyone who has difficulty in finding a date and also to widen one’s social circle. We would like to say thanks to Jamie and Violet once again for being our cupids!!!

    Terence and Kim
    Terence and Kim (married)
  • “Just One Date To Find Her Soulmate” All it took was one date, organised by Lunch Actually for Evangeline Lee to find her soul mate Fabian Lim. “My first impression of him was that he was very humorous and someone who was not very good with managing time. He was 45 minutes late!” laughs Evangeline, an internet marketer. Her wait was well worth it; the couple hit it off and was soon off to Geylang to savour durians before they called it a night at a pub along Liang Seah Street. “I thought she was pleasant looking, patient and communicated well,” adds Fabian, 38, an entrepreneur.

    Fabian and Evangeline
    Fabian and Evangeline (married)
  • "Jack & May (picture May and Jack as attached)" "Initially I was thinking to cancel my date as I was busy with work and church ministry, but then LA contacted me again. During that conversation on the phone, I was convinced about Jack's personality from his profile. I then decided to meet up. We had a good time sharing, exchanging common background and life experiences. We kept in touch and we have been going out together. We've been blessed to be able to get to know each other well through gatherings and outings with his family members. We took a pre-marital counseling from church and felt compatible with personality, background, goals and life purposes. We look forward to a life together as husband and wife very soon."

    Jack and May
    Jack and May
  • "I have no regret that I joined Lunch Actually (LA) since 2014. I met my husband through LA in Nov 2015 and we hit it off right from the first date! Thereafter, we got married in March 2016 and we have been living happily since. LA really provided us with an excellent platform to find your partner. Good luck to all who are looking for true and real love.

  • "We appreciate Lunch Actually's dedicated services and are thankful to have been given the chance to find our right partner. As mentioned before, we are very happy to have been matched by Lunch Actually and look forward to taking big leaps together into our future!"

     Joanne & Teck Hean
    Joanne & Teck Hean

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In the Media

Lunch Actually has appeared in over 3,000 media coverages in top magazines, newspapers, television and radio.

Meet Your

Potential Soulmate

Discreet, Personal and Highly-Effective.