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Are They Cheating on YOU? Here are the Signs!


With much hot news about celebrities cheating on their partners, you might wonder “will it happen to me?” especially if you’re in the early stages of a relationship. It’s the time between the first date and when you’re in a fully committed relationship. If you can sense that something is off, or have noticed unusual behavior, chances are high that they are seeing other men or women a.ka. They’re cheating on you! Here are the 5 signs! 

1. MIA for hours

The first sign they’re cheating on you is MIA for hours! they are usually responsive at some time in the day but on some evenings, they go mia until very late at night or even the next morning. Then suddenly, they’re back with constant messages, without an explanation of what they did. Someone who’s keeping their option open doesn’t want to lie to you about dating other people. So they go silently while they’re busy with someone else. they’re not going to be actively texting you when they’re with other people. They probably turned off the notification, silenced the phone, or even turned off the phone. 

2. Overly protective of their phone 

Pay attention to what they do with her/his phone when they’re with you. Do they turn on the notifications or not turned off the phone? Do they always take their phone to the bathroom and go for long periods of time? These are possible signs that they want to keep the communication private and don't want you to know about them. The red flag is they never show photos or videos on their phone because they’re afraid of the incoming text when they’re looking at the screen. They don’t even let you borrow their phone when you have an emergency! Even worse they have two phones so you won’t be suspicious, so when you borrow their phone, their affair is kept safely.

3. Lack of commitment 

One man/woman can show their commitment even before you’re official by actively planning the future. So, they’ll arrange a nice date on the following weekend and make sure they put you on their calendar. But if you only hear from them at the last minute and never plan things ahead of time, that means they have another agenda with someone else. They will ring you if their original plan changed. Another thing is when they keep canceling your date without a clear reason like “I’m busy this weekend”. No one is consistently too busy for the woman/men they’re into especially if you guys aren’t official yet. This is the big sign when they're cheating on you!

4. You don’t know their friends 

When someone like you, they want the world to know about you. They’ll introduce you to their friends or co-workers. They want their friends to become your friends too. But, if they don’t, it’s possible that they hide something from you. 

5. Ambiguous 

Have you tried bringing the “talk” conversation before and all they said was “let’s just enjoy this moment”? What it really means is they are not willing to commit to anyone. If they keep you in the dark and you’re confused about his /her intention, they haven’t decided which women/men they want to go official yet.  

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