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愛…請問,怎麼走?——政見不同 還可戀愛嗎?


最近很多風風雨雨,令人透不過氣來。我們有很多會員都問,約會可談政治嗎?一段關係政見不同的愛情怎可走下去?單身的你,有以下方式可以處理有關dating問題:

如果你們正在約會——

1. 避免談政治:

為甚麼呢?因為政見不同,背後理念可能令大家鬧得面左左。例如,你是很討厭某個國家或地方,但若對方表現無所謂,或覺得飲飲食食、生活興趣更加重要,甚至關心經濟多一點,你是否立刻會評價他不合適呢?如果有可能的話,就不要開始這話題了。

2. 避談你是支持那一方:

最近發生的事情鬧得沸沸揚揚,就算你禁不住一定要談這話題,可以輕描淡寫說最近的衝突令人感到失望,社會的各種因素真的令人擔憂。但千萬不要激烈表達你支持那一位或是屬於甚麼「顏色」派別。因為,這可能會立刻令你對面前的他加上標籤。

3. 可將焦點轉化為關心社會:

每個人都希望對方是一個懂得關心人的人,與其集中談站在那下方,倒不如退一步,又想多一點話題。大可以談談最近的事情令人更關心不同的社會議題,例如:如何令自己保持正面,順便可令對方覺得你是一個充滿正能量的人。

4. 令對方覺得不是愛投訴:

有時,對一些社會議題說太多負面東西,容易易營造出你是負面的形象。因為,很多令人不滿的事情一次過宣洩出來,未必有出路之餘,好像是一個發洩多於溝通。明白大家有無力的感覺,與其投訴或表現失望,不如少談為妙。多談生活上一些無傷大雅的事情,例如旅行、飲食、興趣,可反映價值觀之餘,亦可了解對方。

祝約會成功!


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