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she.com – “Miss you,dear”唔可以亂用!網交調情係講技巧嘅!


she.com - “Miss you,dear”唔可以亂用!網交調情係講技巧嘅!

經歷了214情人節,不少單身狗都只能暗自悲嘆,即將又到314白色情人節,難道又要坐冷板櫈?積極一點!請教專家Lunch Actually創辦人Violet Lim學學調情技巧,先振作起來吧!

Step 1. 先做好門面功夫
用交友apps或任何通訊軟件認識新朋友,第一步先做好門面功夫——執靚Profile Pic和Bio。Violet教路,Profile Pic最好是笑面,不能太遠甚至見不到自己。而Bio方面,善用正面的字眼,例如fit,passion,optimistic一類,製造平易近人的好印象。

Step 2. 在網海中突出自己
需知道你跟網友聊天,同時間網友也可跟其他人聊天,你必須在人群中突出自己,讓對方注意到你。Violet說只打招呼如「早安、早抖」的開場白,只會予人悶蛋的感覺。嘗試從對方興趣入手,譬如對方愛看書,你只需經過書局拍一張新書照片給對方,便可撩起話題,且令對方覺得你對他/她上心呢!
平日經歷或看到的趣事,也可whatsapp對方,逗趣一下。

Step 3. 避免做話題終結者
有時對方只跟你閒話家常:「你吃飯了沒有?」若回應yes/no,不免太過平淡令話題無法發展。Violet建議可挑逗一點,反問對方:「為什麼這樣問?想約我嗎?想我了嗎?」令氣氛更加有趣。

Step 4. 甚麼時候用voice msg/ video chat?
想更進一步用voice msg/ video chat跟對方聊天?Violet說最好彼此見過一次面才用。因為聲音和畫面有更直接的交流,可減低因用錯字眼/表情符號令人誤會的機會。

Step 5. 善用調情字眼
Violet特別提醒“Miss you””dear”那一類的調情字眼需小心使用。如果很久沒聯絡,突如其來一句“Miss you”實在唐突。但如果晚上收工、深夜很累的時候,一句“Miss you”就予人心甜的感覺,因此絕不能濫用啊!

Step 6. 對方已讀不回
我應該窮追嗎?Violet指出不要讓自己心傷,最好設下底線,如等了x日、問了x次都沒回應就let go好了。

Step 7. First Date的日子應否為節慶日呢?
最後,編輯問到First Date的日子應否為節慶日呢?,Violet:「視乎彼此認識多久吧!相識不久就在情人節約會未免太突然,但如果認識一段時間後,趁對方生日,邀請對方吃飯就順理成章,而且表示你有心呢!」

she.com - “Miss you,dear”唔可以亂用!網交調情係講技巧嘅!


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