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別因寂寞談戀愛


臨近歲末年頭,節日令整座城市充滿了熱鬧的氣氛。看見街頭雙雙對對的身影,難免令單身人士更感孤單。人嘛,單身久了總是會感到寂寞,這是很正常的事。然而,當寂寞來襲時,絕對不能敗給寂寞。若因寂寞談戀愛,一不留神愛錯了,隨時落得遍體鱗傷。

因為寂莫而錯過

 「單身久了」、「趕在聖誕節前找到對象陪我過」……這些逼自己趕著告別單身的話一定要先戒除。因為越是著急,越容易選錯對象;著急的心,會讓人忘記聆聽自己的真心。最終,不但花了時間在不適合的人身上,甚至在追趕的過程中,錯過了生命中那位對的人。

愛情,不是圍爐取暖

在社會的思想框架之下,戀愛、結婚、生小孩,即使在現今漸漸開放的社會,仍是大眾所認為的一套幸福人生方程式。於是,「單身,便等於寂寞;寂寞,便等於失敗。」這種想法仍然緊緊地套牢著單身者。為了脫下「失敗」的標籤,單身者往往愛海裡拼命尋找救生圈,找一個能與自己一同上岸的拍檔。

幸運的話,當然能成功上岸;但沒有找對令自己真正幸福的方法,只會落得不斷在愛海浮沉。請記著,真正的幸福,並不是擺脫寂寞。當你有一天學會與自己相處,學會愛上自己,學懂不論是否單身都能肯定自己的時候,你才能打開自己的真心,看到你真正所愛的人。

別忘了聆聽自己的真心

在一段健康的戀愛之中,不單是找一個人陪伴吃飯、逛街,更重要是心靈上的同行。而適合的靈魂伴侶,往往需要靜下來細意觀察、尋找的。祝福每一個您,能在接下來的佳節,找到對的那一位。

Text/ Jamie.L


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