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自己的幸福自己找


香港社會面對男女比例失衡的問題,愈見嚴重;不少男士又沒有體育精神,寧願北上尋偶,更使僧多粥少,令一眾已屆適婚年齡的剩女,大有「千金易得,筍盤難求」之歎!當然, 現今女性經濟能力與男性不相伯仲,單身生活仍然可以很精彩,沒有必要勉強委屈自己,以找條長期飯票為目標;但歲月不饒人,單身太久,空虛孤寂的感覺便來偷襲,損害自信;身邊閨密一個一個或拍拖或變身人妻,你只能貢獻出最後的友誼作她們的伴娘、姊妹。寂寞時要想找個知心好友陪伴訴說,她們往往重色輕友,這也難怪啊! 偏偏家庭聚會中,總有幾個特別喜歡關心 / 打聽別人終身大事的姨媽姑爹,這些無形壓力真令人沮喪,彷彿單身是罪, 非是本身出了甚麼問題似的。

誠然,單身生活可以是個人選擇,我行我素沒有不妥;但如果是內心渴望愛情,卻總是乏人問津;而你認為只是別人不懂得欣賞自己而已,這樣的阿Q精神便大大不妥了。別再自欺欺人了,自己的幸福自己找;以下幾招,是逃離單身的良方,頗具參考價值:

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適當地調整形象:

單身日久,女人變得獨立堅強,人前人後擺出一副強悍戰鬥格局,男人婆形象把男人都嚇跑了;他們需要的是陰陽協調的伴侶,不是要找個異性兄弟啊! 女人,請卸下你的武裝、放柔你的眼神、調低你的嗓門、減慢你的步伐、縮小你的動作;你的女人味隨之慢慢地散發出來,魅力傾瀉,就只差他一個不留神, 便成就你的偉大功業。

「窈窕淑女,君子好逑。」:

「年晚煎堆,人有我有。」這心態最要不得;積極追求幸福,尋找伴侶是應該的,但不致於「賣剩蔗」,降低身份吧!每個人都有自己的位置和要求的。姊妹們勿讓「日久單身」消磨壯志,只要將「日久失修」的外表修葺一下,注意儀容打扮、讀一兩本心靈雞湯的好書、多吸收外界的資訊、與時並進、充實日常交談的內涵和趣味,都可以提升個人情操和吸引力;這才是同時兼顧外在美和內在美的窈窕淑女。

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,參加一些dating 活動:

與其自怨自艾,臨淵羨魚,倒不如主動出擊,譬如參加一些時下流行的dating 活動,增加覓偶的成功機會。活動中筍盤同時出現的數目相對較一般約會為高,大家目標一致,旗幟鮮明,省卻許多守株待兔的費時失事,亦可以擴闊視野和生活圈子;雖然未必一擊即中,但機會總在前面。此舉既能調劑枯燥的生活,讓自己鮮亮起來;也能提升社交能力,增加自己的擇偶條件;更重要的是:不要把自己收藏起來,這無形中也給予了許多男士的機會;別忘記你也是他們的筍盤呢!。記住:「自己的幸福自己找」,就算上天要賜給你一段良緣,你也總得要走前一步,伸手來接啊!


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