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相愛不難!一生一世幸福法則


三月依始,轟動華人世界的娛樂新聞,莫過於女子天團S.H.E.成員任家萱(Selina)與丈夫張承中離婚的消息。兩口子曾經歷過Selina燒傷意外一役的患難,最終牽手步入教堂,在許多人眼中,是一個完美的童話愛情故事。只是,誰也想不到,浪漫愛情故事會有落幕的一天,跌破眾人眼鏡。

他們的故事,讓大眾唏噓,也讓人不禁反思:相愛是否真的很難?困難至讓一對愛侶跨得過患難,卻敵不過平淡?或許,相愛真的不難,真正的考驗卻在生活的相處。在離婚率高企的現代社會,「一生一世」這四個字,是否真的是遙不可及?

有網民說:「連他們也分開,要我們怎樣再相信婚姻?」我卻認為,只要心存盼望,從別人的例子中學習,繼續付出努力、付出愛,人人也可以得到一生一世的幸福。

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  • 不但要懂得說「我愛你」,更要懂得說「對不起」

生活,就是柴米油鹽。一堆瑣碎事的日子,很多時候並不是故事般浪漫。兩個獨立的個體,一起組成一個家,間中的爭吵,也是少不避的。只是,不要讓小爭吵,成為兩個人心裡的大裂縫。及時說一句「對不起」,學習體諒,是一段婚姻磨合的關鍵。只要珍惜對話,你會發現「對不起」這三個字,比「我愛你」有著更神奇的魔力,讓彼此的關係保持溫熱。

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  • 不要從無話不談,變成相對無言

熱戀期冷卻,由愛情變為親情,彷彿是婚姻關係的大敵。從以前的無話不談,漸漸發現再沒有與對方說話的熱情。要有一段健康的關係,便千萬別讓這種情況發生。請習慣每天分享的大小事情,聊天的習慣讓兩個人知道彼此的生活。雖然簡單,卻是感情的重要連繫。

  • 打從心底的信任對方、信任婚姻

信任,是感情重要的基石。記住結婚當天的承諾,眼前這個人是你在眾人的見證之下承諾要愛一生的人。無論人生發生任何事,記重視當天的承諾,信任自己、信任對方、信任大家能牽著手一起走到最後。


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