Greetings,

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Most of our clients contact us for one or more of the following reasons:
  • Wish to widen social circle
  • Tired of meeting the wrong people at bars and clubs
  • Are not experiencing success with online dating or dating apps
If you share the same sentiments, you've come to the right place. We can help you! With the largest membership database for lunch dating in Asia, we are the top choice when it comes to dating for busy professionals.
Lunch Actually is Asia's First and Leading Lunch Dating Company, with offices in Singapore, Kuala Lumpur, Penang, Hong Kong, Jakarta and Bangkok. Our co-founder Violet Lim is the first Asian to be certified as a matchmaker by the Matchmaking Institute in New York, and is also a Dating Practitioner accredited by the Singapore Government (SDN).

To date, we have arranged several thousand matches and lunch dates.

Some of the media we have been featured on are:
and many more!

  • We have the largest database in Asia since we launched 22 years ago.
  • We have a team of professional consultants and a proprietary matching system to cater to all of our clients' needs and preferences.
  • We have a good track record with 85% of clients rating our matches from satisfactory to excellent, and we also have hundreds of happy couples who are dating exclusively or married.

Our Process

If you're interested to find out more, call us at <phone number> in order to schedule a complimentary, non-obligatory appointment. At your appointment, a dating consultant will speak with you about your profile and preferences. If we have suitable matches which adhere to your criteria, the consultant will give you more information about the details of our membership.

Once you decide to join us as a member, and we complete your id verification, we will start looking through our database to line up matches for you. Your dating consultant will be in touch with you regarding your schedule, and she will arrange the date and make the restaurant reservation for you. All you have to do is to turn up and have fun!

After the date, your consultant will speak with you to get feedback about how it went. Based on the information that you provide, your consultant will go on to refine the search process, meaning that each subsequent person that you're matched up to should be a better fit for you.

How do we match

Firstly and most obviously, we look at your profile, physical, and personality preferences - what age range you're looking for, what kind of height and build you're partial to, and whether you like introverts or extroverts, spontaneous people or structured people. Secondly, your dating consultant will also assess you and get to know you, learning about your past relationships, passions, and values.

Last but not least, as mentioned above, we get feedback from you and your match after every date that you go on, and we use this feedback to refine our understanding of what you're looking for and what kind of person you suit.


Client Testimonials
"WE FOUND EACH OTHER"
"We met each other through Lunch Actually on a dinner date. After a few dates, we knew we were made for each other and we have never looked back since. We like that the matching process at Lunch Actually is simple, easy to understand and very comprehensive. Also, as this is a paid service, you can be assured that the singles you are meeting are serious about finding a life partner."
 Mengwei & Cindy (Married in 2014) " 









"WE COULDN'T HAVE ASKED FOR MORE"
" Myself and Ashley have been a couple since we were first introduced by Lunch Actually. Our romance blossomed and since then, we couldn't take our eyes off each other! Thank you Lunch Actually for setting us up and changing the course of our lives!"
Alex & Ashley (Married in 2014)
"THOROUGH AND GENUINE"
" The experience with Lunch Actually was a pleasant surprise. I initially had doubts, but upon meeting my consultant, I found her to be very thorough and genuinely invested in my interests, likes, and requirements etc. I was also impressed with the quality of my date. Great job! " 
Susan (HR Director)










"DELIGHT AND AMAZEMENT"
"I have previously tried a dating agency outside of Singapore, and my experience left me feeling sceptical. I wasn't sure what to expect when I joined Lunch Actually, but to my sheer delight and amazement, my consultant managed to pair me up with someone who met all of my exacting standards, including the criteria that she had to be able to complete a 5K run in 25 minutes. Now Michelle and I are running after each other all the time, and loving every minute of it!"
Robert (Legal Counsel)
It's your turn to take the first step in having a great love life. Email us at [email protected] or call at
Singapore : +65 6532 0010
Kuala Lumpur : +603 2282 8310
Penang : +604 630 2010
Hong Kong : +852 2524 3010
Jakarta : +62 21 572 3320
Bangkok : +66 2 652 0044
to book an appointment now! 
We look forward to speaking with you soon.
We will need to meet you for a face to face chat so that we are able to understand your needs. From there, we can recommend which of our services or packages would be the most suitable or even whether it is a good time to join us. We do not believe in hard selling our packages to anyone.

We guarantee your dates based on your package and we ensure that all preferences and criteria are met. I am confident you will enjoy our service else there is always the one date trial where there is an option for a refund!
We hope to hear from you soon so we can share with you the many success stories that have inspired us to strive to help everyone single client looking to meet their significant other. There is someone out the for you so don't procrastinate. 

Act now! Call us at
Singapore : +65 6532 0010
Kuala Lumpur : +603 2282 8310
Penang : +604 630 2010
Hong Kong : +852 2524 3010
Jakarta : +62 21 572 3320
Bangkok : +66 2 652 0044
or 
drop us an email at [email protected]
P.S. When was the last time you went on a date? 
Or when was the last time you tried something new?

Lunch Actually is here to help you widen your social circle with guaranteed dates!
Other Frequently Asked Questions

What if I have no time for lunch?
We arrange the dates around your schedule - other than lunch, you can opt for breakfast, brunch, tea, dinner, or after-work drinks.

What are your opening hours?
Our office is open from 10am to 7pm, Monday to Saturday.

What if I don't like a particular date?
If you don't like a particular date, you can just cut your date short, calling your consultant when you're done to give your feedback.