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for Singapore's Most Eligible Singles

19 Years of Experience

150,000 Dates Arranged

87% Satisfaction Rate

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Love Stories

Be inspired through these stories of our successful couples

- Cindy & Mengwei (Married)

- May & Jack (Married)

- Terence & Kim (Married)

"We Had an Amazing First Date!"

When Lunch Actually introduced Jack's profile, I was looking forward to our date. We had such a great time getting to know each other!

"Process is Easy & Comprehensive!"

We met each other on a dinner date. After a few dates, we knew we were made for each other and we have never looked back since!

"Professional and Trained Dating Consultants!"

We highly recommend Lunch Actually to all singles and busy professionals. It's a great platform to find someone!

Reviews from Our Clients

"It's Like We Were Made for Each Other!"

"He’s Now My

Future Husband!"

"They Matchmade

Us and Now We Are Planning Our Wedding!"

I’m glad that I took the step and signed up with Lunch Actually because I was busy with work and tired of swiping dating apps and meeting random strangers. Thanks to my consultant Fiona for seeing me through this journey. She's always prompt to answer my queries and take my feedback, which made the whole process simple and smooth.

- Jenny -

The chemistry is instant! How you explained we could talk for hours in the first meeting alone and we had everything is common? Special thanks for Jessie Gan for taking the extra mile to fully understand me, which lead to finding my life partner."

- Mark -

Perfectly professional matchmaking by Rachelle from Lunch Actually. Had a throughly enjoyable experience

with their team.

- Hazel -

"You Will be Able to Find The Love of Your Life, Just Like Me!"

"If It's Not for LA, We Wouldn't Have Found Such Happiness Together!"

"Married My Match From LA, and Our First Baby Boy Is on the Way!"

We met each other on a dinner date. After a few dates, we knew we were made for each other and we have never looked back since!Thank you for providing a pleasant dating experience. It is a professional platform which vet through every members to ensure compatibility. I sincerely encourage all singles who are reading this to give yourself a chance to find true love via Lunch Actually.

- Chloe -

Personally I would like thank

my consultant Joy Tay for being so professional, pro-active and proficient in spotting matches

for me. Because of her astuteness, she went through great lengths to pursue

and bring a match whom

she thinks is highly suitable

for me, and voila, now me

and my match are together!

- Alex -

I joined Lunch Actually to expand my social circle, especially as I wanted to meet people outside my industry. Frankly, they can match compatibility but you can’t match chemistry. But if you don’t go on dates, how do you find chemistry? A BIG thank you to the LA team! Continue to do what you do, and help the people out there!

- Eileen -

This is You

Intelligent, successful and sincere. You have it all and now you're looking for someone to have a meaningful relationship with. As Asia's first and largest lunch dating company, Lunch Actually has access to an exclusive and verified database of Singapore's most eligible singles.

We don't just match you based on one criteria - we take your preferences, plus your values, goals, and lifestyle to find your most compatible partner.

Profiles of Our Members

Age Range



25 - 65+

23 - 45



Bachelor Degree,

Masters and Above

Top Industries

Banking • Engineering • Finance

Education • Medical & Healthcare

Technology • Consulting • Legal

Challenges in Modern Dating Today

Pubs. Clubs. Awkward moments. Dubious profiles on dating apps. Endless swiping. Love scams.

There must be a more elegant and convenient way to meet potential partner in Singapore!

Say NO to:

Swiping through hundreds and hundreds of dating profiles, and either not getting responses after sending out 20 messages or receiving too many messages with the same 'hello..'

Wasting time chatting for days/weeks/months, only to be ghosted!

Cat and mouse games, wondering if the person that you're interested in, would go on a date with you..

Complaining to friends about lack of eligible singles out there, as we have the largest database of singles whom we are matching you up to.

Since 2004, Lunch Actually has helped thousands of singles just like you discover themselves, find love and be in a fulfilling and happy relationships.

Meet Our Founders - Violet Lim & Jamie Lee

Jamie and Violet met when they were both studying in Manchester and fell in love over a lunch date! They are happily married with 2 children.

Violet started her career at Citigroup Singapore before starting Lunch Actually at the age of 24. She's the first Asian to be certified by Matchmaking Institute of New York, and since then, she has published a best-selling book "Lessons of 50,000 First Dates" and named Women Entrepreneur of The Year in 2017.

Violet is now the Resident Love Expert at Class95FM and Yes 93.3FM. She has been featured in over 3,000 media, including CNN, BBC, Forbes, CNBC, The Straits Times, Channel News Asia, Business Insider and more.

Why 18,000 Working Professionals Trust Lunch Actually

Pioneer Brand

We are the first premium dating agency in Asia with 19 years of proven success record and presence in 6 countries.

Your One-Stop Dating Solution

We recognize that every single is unique, so our platform and service is personalized based on individual's preference. We also provide coaching services to help our clients increase their success rate.

Your Privacy is Guaranteed

All your personal information with be kept confidential. Dates are also done in a discreet manner and only your first names are given.

Suitable for Your Busy Lifestyle

We do all the work for you and your date, from matching, restaurant booking and date reminder. You just have all the fun!

Strict Verification

We invite every potential member to our office for a chat to verify each person’s identification and also to sense out unsuitable individuals.

Highly Effective

We have a well-tested and well-proven matching algorithm that has created over 4,500 happy couples with 87% matches satisfaction rate.

How Lunch Actually Works

Step 1

Meet our experienced Dating Consultant for a friendly chat to learn more about you and your relationship goal

Step 2

Once you've become a client and completed ID check, our search begins immediately for matches based on compatibility, personality and physical preferences. During this period, we can also arrange for your personalised Dating Success sessions to get yourself ready for your first date!

Step 3

Your match is found! All you have to do is show up and enjoy your date! Let us know your feedback after each date so we can "fine tune" your dating criteria. The process is simple, easy and yet all up to you!

In the media

One of the Strongest Regional Brand with over 3500 Media Appearance & Reviews in Top Magazines, Newspapers, Television, Online Media and Radio.

Your journey to finding the love of your life begins here.

Request for an invitation to meet with our Dating Consultant today.

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