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HK01 – 【約會技巧】約會達人教你調情秘技:欲擒故縱還是做自己?


HK01 - 【約會技巧】約會達人教你調情秘技:欲擒故縱還是做自己?

不是找不到心儀對象,而是每次都難以繼續發展?想趁這情人節「脫單」,那就快跟約會公司Lunch Actually創辦人,見盡無數離合與戀愛奇難雜症Violet Lim學習如何吸引異性!

情景題一:Whatsapp已讀不回?

談得興起,對方忽失蹤?女方追問:「你是掉進外太空了嗎?」

還未單獨約會,與心異對象往往都是以短訊交流,但很多時候,對話最後都無疾而終,甚至最後「至死不相往來」,只因對方「已讀不回」。

Violet 就「教路」:「切忌窮追猛打!」

「已讀不回」當然令人既生氣又沮喪,但你不必窮追猛打、也不用「欲擒故縱」。你可以嘗試隔一陣子若無其事開新話題,最佳以問句形式,但不用追問對方為何不回覆。即使他再度失蹤也不應窮追猛打,不然只會徒惹反感。請謹記,你也有自己生活,不用守着電話,而且,你也可以試試與其他人談天!

情景題二:初次見面,說甚麼?

若心儀對象問你:「週末愛做甚麼?」

筆者「學藝未精」,只會回答:「吃飯、看戲⋯⋯」Violet 就指出,這樣的回答沒有不妥,只是便白白把表現自己的機會白白流走!

她建議,應趁機把自己最好一面表現出來,但切忌「一句起,兩句止」,不然便太造作,也會成為「話題終結者」。如比起「我很有愛心」,你可以形容:「我家養了一隻小狗,平日我會跟牠⋯⋯」,你好運動,也可以實列和故事帶出:「上次爬山驚險萬分,我差點滾下山⋯⋯」不但為自己「加分」,也可以為對話留下深刻印象。

情景題三:我應打扮故我,還是迎合對方?

Violet分享,有位男生,樣貌財富都屬「有條件」人士,但就每次約會都失敗,原來「敗筆」在於他每次都穿「拖鞋」。這位男生開初不明所以,但也乖乖把皮鞋放在車上,約會時便穿上,結果無往而不利,現在已經找到終身伴侶,並組織家庭。

要知道,第一印象非常重要,人人都愛美事,因此穿撘絕不能草草了事。Violet不建議女生穿一些自己完全不喜歡的衣物,但可以多點心思,以自己喜歡的風格,穿出最好的一面。若然只是小小的轉變,如換雙鞋子便能找到真命天子,何樂而不為呢?

或許你會問:「不是吧!連戀愛都要學?」但Violet則直言,很多人對戀愛都有誤解,認為愛情是別人令自己完整,其實是自己先要成為「完整的一個人」。因此,以上技巧不是要自己成為另一個人,而是成為最好的自己。

HK01 - 【約會技巧】約會達人教你調情秘技:欲擒故縱還是做自己?


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