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爭先融入男友圈子…女人妳錯了


有些女人,跟男人拍拖時,就希望把他「全面佔有」,由他的朋友圈開始,再到他的家庭當中;如果兩人不是在同一公司,那麼他的同事也大有可能不時會跟那位纏身女友見面——因為她就是要逐步逐步要走進他的生活、他的生命——然後天真地以為他從此都走不出她的控制了。

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如果妳真的這樣想,那就大錯特錯了!當一個男人還未準備好跟妳同度一生,為何他要介紹妳給朋友和家人認識,然後不到一盞燈功夫卻鬧分手,屆時又要向諸位解釋一番……男人都愛懶。所以若他的心理還未準備好要跟妳踏入另一階段,男人壓根兒不會想妳走進他的生命——至少不會太「深入」!不過,如果他有思想準備,認為妳就是那個對的人,那麼妳會發覺他的態度一百八十度轉變,不再像要把妳收藏起來了,突然之間,妳就是他的左右手,如影隨形,他不再抗拒妳出席他與友人的聚會,他不再怕在公司細細聲、不自然地接聽妳的電話,他甚至在大時大節讓妳跟他回家去與父母同桌吃飯。

男人天生有種反叛的心

所以說,做女人要放聰明一點,妳愈是想進入他的圈子,他就有一種反叛的心,不想妳走進來——尤其是當大家的感情還未很穩定。不過,世上男人何其多,總有一些男人會在拍拖初期動不動就帶妳去見朋友,甚至拍拖一個月不夠就允許妳登堂入室——此時妳千萬不要認為他用一個月時間就把妳看作終身伴侶了,因為妳總會看得出:

 

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他的朋友看見妳的出現沒有驚喜

如果妳以「新女朋友」的身份出現在他的朋友圈之中,但他的朋友見到妳竟然沒多大反應,或者沒有取笑他「嘩!終於找到女朋友啦!」之類,那麼,妳就知道他經常帶別的女人在身邊,而帶妳這位新任女友去見朋友不外乎幾個原因,一是妳是個很漂亮的女生,他只想在朋友間炫耀一番,而非對妳認真;二,如果妳自認外貌平平,那麼他可能想在朋友圈中顯示自己並非沒有魅力、身邊總有個女伴云云;三,可能他只是怕寂寞,又或者,正如韓劇經常有的情節——或許妳只是他用作激將法的棋子,他喜歡的或許是在場朋友中的其中一位。Who knows?

所以,如果男友未將妳正式介紹給朋友或家人認識,不要急於一時,兩個人相處是兩個人的事,硬要把朋友家人都拉進來,即使妳得到了他們的歡心,最後男友不愛妳了,還不是照樣分手收場麼?


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