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女人拍拖一段日子後,如何能抓緊對方,保持愛情熱度?


拍拖前後往往是男女在愛情競技場上佔上風的逆轉。一般來說,男仕在追求至拍拖熱戀初期,角色扮演通常是情深,多情,百般遷就女友,投其所好,日日夜夜陪伴在公主左右,  而女生是萬千寵愛在一身。

可是拍拖日子久了,男仕便會多找朋友消遣,喜過群體生活。簡單說,便是開始對關係的熱情減退。相反,女仕會更加投入感情,更加想操控對方,這一收一放的現象,令很多女生也大為懊惱,到底女人如何能抓緊對方,令他繼續為你鍾情?

以下有五個不要:

  1. 提醒自己不要太早全情貫注

當男人把女人追到手,感情轉穩定時,他們便會失去了昔日的心思,有些甚至對經常見面有點生厭。皆因男人認為你已屬於他,不再需要太著緊你,所以女仕們,即使是愛得火熱,也應留點餘地,不要太早全情貫注在一段感情上,不一定要若即若離,但不要令對方覺得你是非他莫屬的。

例如:你有你自己的朋友圈子,異性朋友,不要有男友冇朋友,好讓男人留在「作戰狀態」,他們自然會著緊妳。

  1. 不要太鬆懈自己

女人不要找到男友便好像收工似的,讓自己最最真實的面貌給對方一一呈現,明白妳一定認為男友愛你便應愛你的一切,但男仕一般也是以「貌」取人,太蓬頭垢面,他們會接受不了。

  1.  不要想繼續做公主

大部份男人在追求階段,都會多做點功夫取悅女生,但妳切忌要求男友繼續把你當公主看待。現實一點,這是定律,大家相處得融洽舒服便是。男人喜歡女生溫柔體貼,不會想長期侍奉公主,妳如偶爾展露一下見得人的廚藝,更能令男友覺得你內外兼備。

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  1.  不要太快或主動規劃將來

認真便輸,不明白為什麼結婚總是由女友去規劃或提出?男人其實也會去做。如男人不想,你做了也沒有用。由邂逅拍拖到共同生活,路途其實可以好遙遠,女仕往往太心急行事,而對方又未ready, 因此令男人厭倦,或把他嚇走。

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  1.  不要做女管家

睇戲都睇唔少,女友以女主人身份進註男友家,令男友頓感失去自由。即使是男友給了鑰匙,也不要上男友家執拾及打點一切,因為妳不是他的母親或鐘點工人。亦切忌去批評他的老友,因為他分分鐘是「兄弟如手足,女友如衣服」那種男子。家人更加不用說,血濃如水,不要過早高估自己在他心目中的地位。

Text/Phoenixgirl


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