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告別單身大計


在職場上,三十歳以上的男仕,大多已是有家室,相反,四十歳以上的單身女仕佔很多數,她們單身的原因可能是早年沒有mark實一大學同學,或者三十幾歲才和男友分手,而有些是一直孤芳自賞,要求很高。我有位女同事說自己仍單身時,很擔心我們歸類她是第三種,急忙說她是剛剛和同居男友分手,不是單身很久那種。

作為一心想幫女同事告別單身的好同事,經常為她們設計一系列的行動,務求即使未能一擊即中,也可改善一下她們的缺點。

首要行動便是轉一轉個look。

如果妳keep住一個樣咁多年都無人問津,妳是不是要反省一下?例如我有一個女同事,四十歳以上,中等身材,不肥不瘦,可是長期束中學生的短髮,髪質粗糙,掛著一副老土的眼鏡,衣著亦比較似一中年婦人,試問有那些男人喜愛這些裝扮?假如繼續這樣,只有死路一條。我建議她改善髪型和髪質,轉佩戴con, 可試一些型格打扮或年輕一些的衣着。

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其次,便是生活圈子。

很多單身女很宅,週末節目是看書,煲劇,返阿媽屋企煮飯或打麻雀,OMG, 這簡直是自掘墳墓。認識多些sociable 的朋友,喜不喜歡也多參加一些活動,直接叫朋友介紹下又何妨,總之,訂立目標,起碼結識多些朋友,真命天子往往可能是朋友的朋友。我有一個女友人連朋友的家庭聚會也參加,結果識了朋友的親戚。

第三點是改性格。

你性格唔一定有大問題,但結識不到男友就一定要改一改,又或者妳沒有突顯妳的優點。 坦白講,香港女性有很多港女性格根深蒂固,如你青春少艾還會有追求者,但中年單身女人,便應改一下。例如港女特性,什麼也要快,去餐廳食飯,如食物遲一些,便已催了數次,曾聽過一港女因點了鷄飯未到,問侍應是不是要去街市買鷄,亦有某貴價茶餐廳,侍應叫港女坐埋一邊而遭大駡,隔離枱男生嘩然。其實真命天子隨時可在附近,收歛一下可提高自己的運數。

第四是女人的嫵媚。

當然有男人喜歡男仔頭性格,但大部份喜歡女人有sex appeal。不是刻意賣弄性感,但衣著上可突顯妳的優點,不一定是低胸,露鎖骨也很奏效,塗上迷人的香水,輕聲溫柔淺笑都是煞食的武器。

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第五是製造機會。

即使妳養精蓄銳,亦要有機會給妳施展渾身解數。工作場地是一個製造情侶的好地方。當你發現妳的公司女多男少,又或者所有筍盤早已名草有主的話,考慮下轉去一些男仕比較多的行業工作,如I.T.界。當然如妳做HR, Finance或者Marketing,比較容易轉行業。總之,不要放過每一個機會,工作上認識的伙伴亦可列入考慮之列。

以我替單身女做參謀的經驗,不是每個單身女也聽話,她們仍深信上天有件好東西會留給她們,so called緣份天注定,所以她們往往坐以待斃,覺得自己好正,無須要改,這成為她們仍單身的致命傷。事實是即使有個好男人在等緊妳,妳亦應以最佳狀態去迎接他,而不是把他嚇走。有一女友人能改變港女性格,變得多善解人意,不再是高高在上,果然給她找到了


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