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數港女矛盾,妳中了多少項?


女人是矛盾的動物, 一方面要求男女平等,另一方面又覺得女性應該受到男士的照顧,享有特權。時下一些香港女人,尤其擁有以上特質,被冠上一個含貶意的稱呼:「港女」。

廿一世紀的女性,尤其是身處香港的女性,無論受教育和工作機會都與男性看齊,地位愈見提高,說不定我們下一任就來個女特首。不過特首也是公僕,得為人民服務;而有些情侶之間的相處,女人就自命特首,高高在上,要男朋友俯首稱臣,凡事以她為中心,以她的利益作優先考慮。

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  1. 拍拖消費,全由男方負責:

許多女人仍然覺得男人付賬,是天經地義的事。如果男友經濟條件可以應付,而又處於拍拖初期,讓男人付賬,也無不妥,可先留意他點餐的價位,自己再點相約的食物。間中女人亦可以製造一些藉口或機會作東道,而且要觀察男人的習慣,不要常常提議一些高於他慣常水平的消費,強他所難。

  1. 吵架冷戰後,一定要男友道歉:

情侶爭吵,無論事情大小,誰對誰錯,都要男友認錯,這是港女通病;俗語說得好:「人要臉,樹要皮。」老是要他陪不是,他心裡難免不悅,覺得你是野蠻女友,日久生厭;建議你不經意地築個下台階,讓大家情緒冷靜下來,再好好說出自己的看法,也聽他好好解釋;總比「贏了勢,輸了情」強得多了。

  1. 男友所工餘時,強迫男友疏遠家和友儕:

很多女人控制慾特別強,要男友像「小李子侍奉慈禧太后」般對待她;操縱了男友所有的工餘時間,甚至要他疏遠家人和友儕;這才是最可怕可憎的公主病。你既令他成了孤獨村,而你也一定不受歡迎,神憎鬼厭;這往往是兩人爭吵的原因,分手的導火線,永遠不能輕視人際關係的威力!

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  1. 情緒失控發脾氣:

一位優雅的女士,絕不會「容易」發脾氣,請攬鏡自照,閣下發脾氣的樣子,多麼可怕!你當然也有不高興的時候,但表達的方式應該是尊重和理性,男士要表現風度,女士則要表現儀態。

  1. 愛作主導,喜歡話事:

時下女性,學識和見識都廣,不少都在辦公室內指揮若定,習慣「揸fit」,不過拍拖生活是共同享有的,切忌耍性子專權;凡是涉及兩人的,都應和衷共濟,有商有量,令男人覺得被尊重,他多數也會遷就你的意願而不失面子。

以上幾項,妳中了多少?


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