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戀愛,如何拿揑得準?


遲一點太遲,早一點太早;多一點太多,少一點太少;鬆一點太鬆,緊一點太緊。戀愛,如何拿揑得準?難啊!

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Timing很重要:

人海茫茫,月下老人要找登對的一男一女去紅絲繫足,不容易呢!好不容易才讓他們遇上了,卻己錯過了大好時機,這是多麼令人洩氣的事?他/她已有另一半了,只能婉惜相逢恨晚了!攪不好就變成橫刀奪愛,見異思遷,或莫名其妙地擔負了小三的惡名;即使勉強享受偷來的短暫快感,只會惹來驚濤駭浪、遍體鱗傷。有些人明知故犯,任性地亂放感情,到頭來傷害了別人,又苦了自己,因為愛上一個人不容易,要把深陷的泥足抽離則更難,要麼是玉石俱焚,三败俱傷,何苦呢? 在一切未發生前,請好好想清楚,不應該發生的事情,就別讓它發生。

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戀愛只是人生一部分,不是全部:

戀愛好比一杯甜酒,芬芳馥郁,酒不醉人人自醉了。太沉醉於戀愛的人,眼裡除了他/她已無旁人;只要有機會便黏在一起,續漸疏遠了往日的死黨和閨密,連親人都沒時間見面了,甚至工作中都是行屍走肉的魂不附體。他們給自己的生活畫了一個小圈子,圈子內只容得下兩個人,其他都是圈外人;但是人生裡涵蓋的範圍其實很大,需要兼顧的事情也很多:我們除了愛情,還需要親情、友情…;除了愛情,還需要麵包,麵包上可能需要多一點點黃油和果醬;除非你兩口子能夠像楊過、小龍女般超然生活吧!

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監控於視線範圍之內:

這普遍發生在控制慾強又自信心低的情人身上。隨時要求對方電話匯報行蹤、查看whatsapp , 終日疑神疑鬼,患上「戀愛精神病」了;有些情侶務必要出席對方的任何約會,這舉措每每叫人冒火。若能通情達理一點去看事情,不難明白有些環境是你不宜插足的,例如:純男人的聚會,哥兒們杯酒論英雄的時候,女性多數不受歡迎,你阻礙了他們的豪情盡興啊!他們總不成在女士面前說幾句粗話吧?女生最愛窩在一起「傾密偈」,也是男人的禁地,很多私語都不便與你分享的;家庭聚餐當然歡迎子女帶同另一半回來,但要留意不能佔據或阻礙人家聚天倫的時間,應該適當地抽身,讓父母子女留一點空間。家宴上大合照時,如果男/女朋友可以暫時隱形或變身攝影師,你的知情識趣一定贏得對方家人的欣賞和尊重;因為你還未算是家庭一份子,將來的發展也未可料,你插入了畫面中,可能會破壞了人家的有價值的紀念照片,還會引起日後的尷尬啊!


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