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別因為小誤會斷送愛的人


今天來說一點比較沉重的內容。愛情有時來得太快,或許沒了解清楚,就喜歡、愛上,然後順理成章地在一起。是的,了解一個人需要很多時間——大前提是雙方沒有隱瞞。在職人士更缺了解的時間,因為除了上班前、午飯時間和下班後的時間能有機會直接對話、見面、吃個飯,然後又各自歸家……所以一天之中有很多時間其實也處於分開的局面。

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要如何獲得對方的信任,或者,要獲得您的信任,其實很多時也取決於雙方各自的經歷。被騙過的人,當然對另一半自然而然地抱有懷疑的態度;騙過人的人,也會自然地把自己的一套,套在別人身上去想……那麼,即使兩個人在一起,也很快會被一些小誤會而把問題自行想得太嚴重,由猜疑開始、心情低落、吵架……結果覆水難收。或許,您所認為的「證據」其實只是小誤會,卻由您的心魔把誤會變為關係決裂的最大因素。

要避免由自己的疑心導致最終分開的結果,最重要是控制自己不必要的負面幻想。如果說到尾,是因為上一次的戀愛經驗告訴您「除了自己不要相信任何人」,那麼,您將會過一個失敗的人生,因為除了戀愛路上碰壁,您在其他人事處理上也不會好過。想一想,就是為了上一次不愛您的人,把自己往後的人生也斷送?要這樣活下去嗎?不!所以由現在起,放下之前的痛苦,用強大的內心撐起來,去相信他人。

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坦白是雙方最佳的橋樑。把自己過往的不快經歷向對方傾訴,讓對方知道您的脆弱、了解您的難過,如果對方愛惜您,自然會避免再做同樣的事去傷害您。遇上小誤會時,不要自己胡思亂想,直接地向對方查明究竟,當您獨自苦惱良久後,才發現那只是一個哭笑不得的小誤會,您就會發現那個鬱悶不歡的自己是多麼的傻。


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