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蘋果新聞 Apple Daily – 家宅男女:婚姻大事之配對篇:一輪嘴 Marry up變剩女


蘋果新聞 Apple Daily - 家宅男女:婚姻大事之配對篇:一輪嘴 Marry up變剩女

處於適婚年齡、但仍未找到另一半的香港女子越來越多,原因自己知自己事。香港人習慣以錢解決問題,幫襯配對公司便成了快靚正之選。媒人小姐林笑岏卻說「付了鈔不代表可以要求更多」,非王子/才俊/有錢人不嫁的,好難做你生意!

記者:蔡慧敏
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擇偶的 must-have items

林笑岏( Violet)是新加坡人,04年與丈夫成立 Lunch Actually,數年間已擴展至台灣及馬來西亞,曾牽線的約會多達15,000宗。在香港的代表作是替官恩娜找到現任的醫生男友。綜觀各地女子, Violet並不認為港女特別難搞:「台灣女仔一樣被人話有公主病,新加坡女仔又話拜金。『港女』經過炒作,才變成標籤吧。」現實是亞洲女子普遍有「 marry up」的想法;而男人,無論是30、40,都貪圖卜卜脆的20,結果隨年紀漸長,金字塔頂層的女子往往沒有着落。「女性事業有成,對生活更有要求理所當然,對男女關係亦然。最重要是搞清楚自己想要甚麼、甚麼才重要?」車樓齊備,不代表就是 The One。「我會建議先設定3-4項不能妥協的條件,例如宗教信仰、價值觀等。外在條件如身高、年齡、職業等,應該有彈性。幸福不在於1米74,而是整個 package,要分清 must have和 good to have。」為了幾 cm、或一層樓而放棄志趣相投的他/她,才是委曲的「妥協」。

港女「死因」研究

Lunch Actually收費一點也不便宜,3次約會套餐,20多歲的客人收費由 $5,300起,3字頭收 $6,300,隨年齡遞增!既然雙方已作「投資」,理論上都是「有心人」,但最終能否開花結果,卻是另一回事。約會平台其中一個好處,是有「賽後檢討」,如果幾次約會都沒有下文,從對方的反應中多少可找到端倪。港女的「死因」通常是甚麼?「好多時男士的回應都說女方講嘢像機關槍,一來便問好多問題,其實係 go through自己的 check list。」 Violet提醒姊妹們,直男擇偶會揀「女人」,工作時不讓鬚眉的衝鋒陷陣,暫且放下。「唔係要你扮蠢,但至少做個 good listener。」化個淡妝、換件靚衫,有助調整自己的心態。「每人都有溫柔一面。不是個個男人都非超級靚女不可,但99%都想找個 pleasant looking的。」就算自覺靚爆鏡,也切忌大安旨意。 Violet遇過一個案例,一名約會數次、「記錄」良好的男士,某次飯後竟要求女方去櫃員機分賬,不歡而散!皆因她一開始就強調自己「無帶錢」,有存心黐餐之嫌。「一般而言男仔都不介意埋單,但女仔都要識做。例如飯後睇戲主動付賬。」另一個「沒下文」的原因是「唔過電」:「很難有一見鍾情,若首次約會氣氛愉快,應該給大家多一次機會,試試不同的活動。」

靚女也相睇?

說回官恩娜, Violet說是真實案例。 Violet說美女們習慣受寵,但到了30出頭追求者減少,尋求協助也不出奇。而她自己在大學時便認識了丈夫 Jamie,25歲結婚、未到30便有一雙子女。她說 Jamie當年愛追校花,自己完全不是他所好的類型,但相處後才發現天生一對!現時 Lunch Actually香港會員的男女比例約為4比6,除了人口女多男少,女子天生較為積極也是原因之一。要維持這比例也不容易,年中被勸退的客人也不少。曾有女子指定要找信天主教的醫生,因為醫生有錢途。「我們有這樣的 profile,但人揀你你揀人,這樣好難找到合適的。」但若因為年紀太大被拒絕,又是否太殘忍?「若 client base內根本沒有你想找、或會找你的類型,收了錢,反而更不道德吧?」

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3 May 2011

蘋果新聞 Apple Daily -  家宅男女:婚姻大事之配對篇:一輪嘴 Marry up變剩女


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